Would you like to learn the five special qualities that can make you a more attractive woman in no time at all?

Every woman deserves to have admiring attention!

“Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.” – Unknown

But what does it take to have men waiting in line to fulfill our desires?

We believe it takes some large sacrifice or a lucky star for men to be the way we dream about them, or for them to treat us the way we only see in films. True, there is no miracle cure or magic wand that will turn a man into a noble prince. However, there is a secret, and if we know how to use it, we can have the man of our dream’s dancing to our tune.

I will share with you one of the secrets that can help you live out your desires and enjoy a happy relationship. Whether you can or want to make use of it, that all depends on you. My wish is for you to be happy!


LET HIM BE A MAN

In today’s rushing world, the ancient order has been overturned. Men are unable to assume their original role, and women have buried their true natures. Waging false battles for power, women step into men’s positions and assume control. Meanwhile, neither party understands what is happening and why it is wrong. We sense something lacking and believe that amassing a fortune will substitute for it. We reach the point where we have more and more money, but cannot comprehend why, in spite of this, the sense of incompleteness persists. Money cannot satisfy it. In order to make it cease and to feel good, we must return to our own natures. After all, every relationship has a male and a female role.

Having transformed the man’s role as well, we fail to notice how, in our everyday lives, we are handling matters that should be the business of men. In order for men to remain men, we must recognize the situations that men ought to handle. Then, gently and with female communication, we should get them to tackle these tasks instead of us. This, for instance, is when we carry shopping bags or lift heavy objects.

“Sweetheart, these bags are quite heavy. You’re so strong! Would you please bring them?”

We should trust in men and believe in them. Realize the situations where we’ve taken over their duties and allow them to reassume them. Then, a man will feel you need him and his presence is important. In the book, there are more examples how we should communicate and the types of situations where we forget to be women.


AKNOWLEDGE HIS ACCOMPLISHEMENTS

In today’s rushing world, the ancient order has been overturned. Men are unable to assume their original role, and women have buried their true natures. Waging false battles for power, women step into men’s positions and assume control. Meanwhile, neither party understands what is happening and why it is wrong. We sense something lacking and believe that amassing a fortune will substitute for it. We reach the point where we have more and more money, but cannot comprehend why, in spite of this, the sense of incompleteness persists. Money cannot satisfy it. In order to make it cease and to feel good, we must return to our own natures. After all, every relationship has a male and a female role.

Having transformed the man’s role as well, we fail to notice how, in our everyday lives, we are handling matters that should be the business of men. In order for men to remain men, we must recognize the situations that men ought to handle. Then, gently and with female communication, we should get them to tackle these tasks instead of us. This, for instance, is when we carry shopping bags or lift heavy objects.

“Sweetheart, these bags are quite heavy. You’re so strong! Would you please bring them?”

We should trust in men and believe in them. Realize the situations where we’ve taken over their duties and allow them to reassume them. Then, a man will feel you need him and his presence is important. In the book, there are more examples how we should communicate and the types of situations where we forget to be women.


SPEND TIME ON YOURSELF

Perception first occurs, generally, through our eyes. Since visual stimuli are very important to men, it is also important for us to appear in a manner that brings us recognition. All of this may be secondary, however. After all, we shouldn’t pay attention to our appearance merely to meet expectations, but because we feel better that way. In order to feel good in our own skins, we first need to put our inner values in order, which will be reflected in our outer appearance as well. We must invest energy in ourselves, love ourselves, and this will be projected by our presence, too. If we are determined and confident, if we have self-confidence and believe in ourselves, then it’s worth making our outward features well-maintained and stylish. A polished and tasteful appearance always makes an impression and attracts attention. Nevertheless, styled hair, manicured nails, and fashionable clothes only make a woman shine if they are in harmony with her true being. Firstly and most importantly, we must be clear about our virtues and our strengths, as well as our weaknesses, because then we can improve upon them. If necessary, we must change our outlook and try to observe the circumstances objectively. If we are in harmony with ourselves, then the man will see that he’s dealing with a woman he cannot bamboozle, and he will take us seriously.


HAVE PATIENCE

Patience is one of the most important female virtues that we possess. This is not the same as compromise. Instead, it is allowing time to work in our favor. A patient woman is able to achieve her aim and properly guide a man.

It is easy to be patient as long as our rights are not violated. The real trial comes when our sense of right (actual or imagined) is offended. That is when we must remain calm and collected, because otherwise it will lead to conflict. Take a deep breath, count to three, or retreat, if necessary. Do not enter into a debate, because then you have assumed a man’s role by becoming a fighter. When we also take up arms – raise our voices, fight, and argue – then the man also goes into battle, because he sees the enemy in us. At such times, he makes no difference between men and women. All he cares about is defeating the enemy and triumphing. We must put aside our pride, and if necessary, repeat to ourselves, “I am calm.” By holding on to our feminine quality, we are even capable of sweeping the storm clouds aside. Patience is not passive waiting. Rather, it is female dignity, which puts time on our side. In overheated situations, calm patience has a mystical power, because the man cannot fight it or get a grip on it. He will realize there’s nothing to grasp onto, and his weapons are incapable of wounding it, so he’ll be forced to surrender. With the use of patience, we are able to avoid fights, squabbles, and petty games.


LEARN TO REMAIN QUIET

One pillar of womanhood is wisdom. In order to be a supportive presence in our relationship, we must know what works for us and what qualities we have. We must stay true to our roles, and if we succeed at this, we can exist as real women.

Patience is strongly linked of the skill of remaining quiet. If we are able to refrain from speaking when it’s not the proper time, we can avoid many, many conflicts. We can make our feminine dignity felt, and we are able to stay collected when the appropriate time comes to convey our feelings and observations. That way, we can achieve our aims.

Everyone has heard the phrase, “Silence is golden.” This applies not only during arguments, but also when the relationship is taking shape. The better we are able to keep information to ourselves, the more mysterious we remain, and we become that much more of a challenge to the man.

We can also use the golden rule of staying quiet when the man is preparing to do something that is not certain to have a positive outcome. Say, for the sake of an example, that our partner wishes to park in a place where you can count on being punished. Ask him quietly, “Are you sure it’s a good idea to park here? I’ve seen a lot of tickets on cars around here.” That way, you gently imply that the responsibility is his, and he must accept the consequences of his actions. If, despite this, he does not park somewhere else, remain quiet and practice patience. If he is punished, he will know next time to pay attention to your hints. Naturally, he will grumble, but we should pay it no mind and not remark on it. We shouldn’t say, “I told you so!” or “You see, if you had only listened to me!” With these statements, we question his manly know-how and significantly oppress him. We must be able to suspend our pride and sense of right. If we are capable of staying quiet even in these situations, then the man will get the lesson and not leap into battle. In fact, next time, he will behave differently. He will pay attention to your hints.


READ THE BOOK

The book offers many other such opportunities and contains plenty of examples that can help us transform our relationships, as well as the man. It covers proper feminine communication and the way men work, as well as our genuine roles and qualities. Moreover, you learn that when a man does something, a simple “thank you” is not enough, and why acknowledging his accomplishments is important. I would like to assist in you in getting the answers to the whys and wherefores that come up in our everyday lives, as well as in our relationships. That way, you’ll understand why things haven’t worked out so far and what it takes to make things work better.

Every line written with love, Valeria Tari