“I read a book one day and my whole life was changed.” –  Orhan Pamuk

I would like to make it possible for everyone to take possession of the secrets because my heart’s desire is happiness for all Humanity.

A great percentage of us THINK that we understand men when normally what we read are the stereotypical articles written by women in the pages of magazines and tabloids. Much of it has nothing to do with reality or the truth. Now you have every right to pose the question, “How can you know the solution? After all, you’re a woman, too.”

You are completely right. I truly am a woman. The type of woman who, for most of her life until now, suffered and struggled and searched for happiness, her path, her calling, a man, herself, and a joyous relationship. A woman who, instead of finding the miracle and completion, was constantly disappointed, falling into traps and deep pitfalls. A woman who always made her own progress harder, running into obstacles and battling overweight. Meanwhile, I fought for every relationship but only ended up finding love that was hopeless and unrequited. A woman who lived through pain, sadness, loneliness, and lack of love. But after all that, I didn’t give up!

I summoned the hope and waited, trusting that someone would solve my problems for me. After being in pain for many long years, I awoke one day and said to myself, “ENOUGH! This is no good, and it can’t continue this way. I must do something, I must do something differently, because it isn’t working this way, and it isn’t good.” I heard my own cry for help. I began to immerse myself in my thoughts, seeking the answer to my questions. I began examining myself, my life, my fate, my opportunities, and men. I wanted to change. I consciously concentrated on what was happening to me and why it was happening. I sought out the company of men and talked to hundreds of them, so I could understand them and how they worked. I got to know many of them and read tons about them – books are written by men about themselves. I attended self-awareness courses, continuously working on myself, and I developed. Then, I read more, attended more courses, and spoke to more men – until I finally understand my own inner workings and those of men.

I have been living a conscious life for fifteen years. I’ve learned several methods of self-awareness. I began to work on myself and confront myself, and that is when I came to see the ingrained patterns that defined and motivated me. The patterns I had learned did not allow me to be my true self, and they prevented me from achieving the happiness I desired. When I grew closer to my true nature – alongside further self-development – I started to hold therapy sessions, and eventually, I taught as well. Thousands of realizations, thousands of revelations – honestly, we are talking about numbers that big – after plenty of pain, loads of bitterness, and countless “A-HA” moments, I am finally my true self. I can do what I must do and be who I must be. I am a happy woman living in balance, harmony, and a joyous relationship. I have reached my goal. I arrived.

The many revelations, ingrained behaviors, courses, books, and conversations made me understand what it takes for a romantic relationship to work well. I learned how men work and what I had to do so we could work well together. Now I know the mistakes I made, when and how. I also learned how to act well and properly.

I want to make it possible for everyone to take possession of the secrets because my heart’s desire is happiness for all Humanity. I want more and more women to be able to put these revelations to use, to turn these secrets to their advantage. It would be good for as many women as possible to know them because they work and can lead to success. I would like every woman to experience what I do now. Happiness! GRATITUDE!

About the Book

It took many years, much experience, and even more suffering for me to be able to write this book. I needed realizations and revelations to get everything straightened out regarding – myself, men, and the relationships that we form. I needed to put everything in its proper place in order to gain insight into the problems that stood in the way of my desires.

With this book, I want to serve women and impart something of real value, so that everyone can find their happiness. My wish is for all readers to achieve their goals and realize their heart’s desire.

I longed for something else, a different path. At the same time, although I believed in the success this material could have, I felt that, besides the deep philosophical thoughts (which sometimes require special close attention), I would write a light, simple, and truly carefree romantic short story. So it became two in one. A relaxed, romantic short story and its deeper content.

The book contains secrets, forgotten since ancient times. If revealed, they could transform the quality of our relationships, allowing us to achieve the state of contentment that we desire. I do not promise that the path will be easy, nor is this writing any guarantee. These are life lessons, experiences, and revelations, thanks to which I became happier and more successful. I am certain that, if it could help me, this knowledge can help others as well. The book provides a good opportunity to sweep the dust off of relationships and put our roles in the proper context, so we can become real women and take advantage of our opportunities. It all depends on us, and us alone.


  • What the hidden secrets are that can positively transform romantic relationships
  • How we can be real women instead of just female
  • How men work and why it is important to understand how they work
  • How we can attract love
  • What makes a man notice us
  • What we must do to make a man take special care of us
  • What will make our days joyous
  • What stands in the way of our happiness
  • How to guide men
  • How we can avoid infidelity
  • What we must do to make a man understand us
  • What does not work and what it takes to fix it
  • How we can find men that are right for us; or, if you already have a “workable” man, how to make him perfect 

This is also a handbook that you can always dip into to find the answers to your problems.

My aim is for the man to notice you and wish to remain with you.